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Private 1:1 Coaching Container

SOMA

For the woman ready to stop abandoning herself, and discover what becomes possible from that place.

By application only · Maximum four clients at any one timeApply for SOMA →
Before anything else

You have spent years making everyone else feel held.

This is the room where someone holds you.

SOMA is a private coaching container for the deeply feeling woman who is done circling the edges of her own aliveness. Who has read the books, done the therapy, knows the theory, and is still in the same patterns. Who wants more depth, more pleasure, more honest intimacy, with herself first, and with the people she loves.

This is not another programme. Not a curriculum to move through. A relationship. Bespoke, devoted, shaped entirely by where you actually are rather than where you think you should be.

It is also, in all honesty, the closest proximity to Jessica’s medicine available.

You are accomplished in some areas of your life and quietly bewildered by the gap between that accomplishment and how you actually feel. You have been the strong one, the capable one, the one who holds it together for everyone around her, for long enough that you have lost track of who you are when you are not performing that role.

You keep choosing the wrong people. Or you keep becoming the wrong version of yourself with the right ones. You over-give, over-explain, shrink yourself into shapes that do not fit, and then wonder why you feel so unmet.

You want more. More aliveness, more sensation, more depth of feeling in your relationships and your body. You can sense it is available. You keep hitting the same wall.

The wall is not you. It is the absence of the right foundation. And that is exactly what this work builds.

Jessica laughing beneath a willow tree in red silk

Before we talk about investment


The real cost is not this container. The real cost is another year in the same patterns. Another relationship that hollows you out. Another round of something that addresses the story but never touches the body. Another version of the same morning where you wake up knowing something fundamental has to change and not knowing how to begin.

That slow leak is far more expensive than this. In energy, in years, in the quality of the one life you are actually living.

This is not the cost of coaching. It is the cost of stopping.

Jessica in quiet joy beneath a willow tree
What SOMA actually is

Each session is a hybrid of over a decade of experience holding space, guided through compassionate self-inquiry using a somatic lens.

Jessica draws on her background in tantra, holistic sexuality, Somatic Experiencing and the embodied arts to meet each woman exactly where she is, not where she thinks she should be.

Sessions are not talk therapy. They are not performance or instruction. They are the practice of genuine contact, between you and your own experience, held in the presence of someone who can feel where you have gone numb and will not look away.

You will leave each session with practical tools and embodied practices to work with during the integration week. The week off is not empty. It is where the work lands.

Before working with Jessica in SOMA, she recommends completing UNRAVEL, her free two-practice somatic initiation. It is not a prerequisite that will lock you out. It is the foundation that makes everything possible. Start UNRAVEL, free →

The three phases

Not a curriculum. A path the body remembers.

1

Arrive

Come back into the body. We quiet the noise and rebuild the felt sense of safety inside you. This is where you stop living in your head and start feeling again, without fear of what is there.

2

Reclaim

Meet your worth at the root. We go to the place where the story “I am too much, I am not enough” was written into your nervous system, and rewrite it through somatic practice rather than analysis.

3

Radiate

Bring her into your relationships. From a full vessel, everything changes: how you receive, how you ask, how you let yourself be seen, in your relationships and your daily aliveness.

Who this is for

Does this sound familiar


You might recognise yourself if…


You are single and stuck in the loop of hating being single, reaching for something external to fix the feeling rather than going inward to discover what it is actually asking for

You are in a relationship and can sense you are holding back the realest, wildest, most alive version of yourself, giving love from behind glass

You are neurospicy and continuously loop in habits of quick yeses, over-committing and over-nurturing, waking up depleted and resentful and doing it all again

And also if…


You feel inherently creative but find yourself frozen when it comes to actually unleashing that creative nature into the world

You have tasted something, in a circle, a workshop, a moment of genuine presence, and want to live there rather than visit

You know you are here to love and be loved deeply, and you are tired of getting in your own way.

Working with Jess was truly one of the most powerful things I’ve ever experienced. I’ve been able to drop into my body and go to places I could never have reached alone, finally addressing and embracing the parts of me that have been screaming for my attention.

Amy, UK

What a deeply intimate, insightful, emotional and creative journey. Jess helped me to untangle my bodily sensation and emotional responses, supporting me to bring my own new realisations to the surface.

Chloe, UK

Jessica is a naturally gifted space holder. I felt safely held and supported and left with immensely profound insight. Her calming and nourishing feminine energy makes it easy to open up and surrender to the process.

Erika M.

I feel like I’ve finally reached the top of a huge hill and found a feature of healing I’ve been waiting for for so long. I’m now satisfied with the knowing that this is a lifelong journey, and very excited to dance with that.

Katherine, UK

I feel like I’ve shed an ill-fitting skin. It feels really, REALLY good.

Ania, Poland
The investment

Choose your container

Jessica holds a maximum of four SOMA clients at any one time. Applications are reviewed personally and spaces are offered by invitation following a consult call.

SOMA
3 months · one week on, one week off
£2,500
or 3 monthly payments of £835
What is included
6 private sessions, fortnightly, 60 minutes each
WhatsApp support between sessions for the real-time moments and the 11pm breakthroughs
Personalised somatic and embodiment practices designed for your body and your edge
Reflection prompts to deepen the work during integration weeks
SOMA Intensive
6 months, plus one in-person day
£7,500
or 6 monthly payments of £1,250
Everything in Immersion, plus
One full day of in-person somatic work with Jessica, location agreed between you
The deepest available proximity to this work outside of a full retreat
For the woman who knows she needs to be in the room

Investment is confirmed on the consult call. Payment plans are available for all containers.

Questions


No. Therapy tends to work backward through the story. This works forward through the body. Jessica does not diagnose, treat or assess mental health conditions. If something arises that is better served by clinical support, she will tell you honestly and point you toward it. This work can sit alongside therapy beautifully. It does not replace it.

That is not a barrier. It is the starting point. Most women arrive feeling disconnected from the neck down. The entire first phase is rebuilding that, gently and without demand. You do not need to arrive ready. You need to arrive willing.

No. This work functions whether you are single, partnered, or somewhere between. The relationship at the centre of this container is the one you have with yourself. Everything else reorganises around that.

This is what the consult call is for. As a general guide: choose 3 months if there is one clear thing you are ready to move through. Choose 6 months if you feel the pull toward a deeper, more permanent reorientation. If you are drawn to the in-person day, SOMA Intensive is the answer regardless of where you are in the decision.

Jessica recommends it, genuinely, because the two foundational practices create the ground that makes SOMA possible to receive more fully. You can find it here. It is free, it is yours forever, and it takes less than an hour across both practices. If you have already done it, say so in your application.

The consult call exists precisely for this. There is no pressure on that call, no pitch, no performance required. We simply feel into whether this is the right container at the right time. If it is not, Jessica will tell you honestly and point you toward what is. You will leave the call clearer than you came in, regardless of what you decide.

Imagine the version of you who is not performing anymore.She does not shrink to keep the peace. She feels desire instead of performing it. She lets herself be seen without flinching, asks for what she wants without apology, and walks into a room already home.She is not someone you have to become. She is who you are underneath everything you have been holding.Let us bring her home. Apply for SOMA →
Apply for SOMA

Ready when you are


If you feel a genuine pull toward this work, I invite you to complete the application below. I read every submission personally. I respond to every one.

There is no pressure to apply before you are ready. There is no wrong answer here.

In your own words, as honestly as you can. This is not a test. There is no right answer.
What has made this the moment you are choosing to invest in yourself?
Be as honest as you are comfortable being. This is confidential and read by Jessica only.

Jessica responds to all applications within 3 to 5 working days. If you are invited to a consult call, that call is free, unhurried, and without obligation.